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Gentleness - a value often neglected.

As I was praying in my shower and continued until the moment before I shut my eyes for sleep, God repeatedly impress the word 'Gentleness' into my heart. I ignored it at first. Thinking that God should have more important things to tell me. But as I kept praying, the impression of the word became stronger..

So I said "Alright God, what can I do with gentleness in my life?" Little answers came in such as "be gentle as you speak", "be gentle in your approach", "be gentle and not be in anger when you're offended" etc.

So I kept them in mind and went to bed. I'm not quite sure about you, but it is true that gentleness has not really been a value in my life. Especially when I feel offended. Though my response may not be extreme, but it's still not 'gentle'. And most of the time when I pray, I would ask God to help me have wisdom, discernment, faith, patience etc. But I never prayed for God to help me cultivate gentleness in my life.

This morning, I decided to go deeper in the word "Gentleness". As I began to ask God to help me cultivate this value, He began to show me what can it do.

- Gentleness eliminates the fear of authority. There can be openness in a relationship between leaders and members. Harshness kills all these.

- Gentleness touches the heart. Harshness hurts the heart.

- Gentleness is a pathway to a second chance, a pathway to hope. Our God of a second chance is a gentle God.
Psalm 18:35
You have also given me the shield of Your salvation;Your right hand has held me up, Your gentleness has made me great.

- Gentleness restores even with rebukes.
A mother who rebukes in gentleness is likely to teach and restore her children into their God given destiny, to become who they are meant to be.
A mother who rebukes bluntly without considering her words is likely to damage the soul and heart of her child. Causing them to think of themselves worthless.

- Gentleness is the number 1 value of a wife.
A wife who tries to make everything in order in the house will only rob the husband of his God given position as the head of the house. Relationships will be torn and the family will collapse.
A wife who supports with gentleness allows God to restore her man into his God given authority in the house. It takes time, but with her love and gentleness, they will make it and the house will be strong.

Before I ended my prayer time, God said a final word to me:
Gentleness is the value of a woman of God. For a woman of God is called to love and nurture in gentleness.

State of the Arts KL - 17 Nov 2010

Yo! State of The Arts KL is here!!!
Check this out!!!!
Personally, I guess I'm gonna join the State of Curiosity - Art Installation category.

What about you? :)

Happy Pill 08.10.10

Beautiful things makes me happy. That's my passion. =)

Made the clouds out of some materials a few days ago. Love it! Perhaps I can sell my design. Anyone wanna buy? Haha :)

5 times to the Merlion in 2010... and it's still counting!

Gosh I can't believe it! I've been to S'pore 5 times this year. Never knew I was that rich! =P

But.. why go so many times? Let's see...

First visit during Feb 2010

Oh yeah we went to Sentosa! And I couldn't enter the casino because I'm underage =S

And we had a jump shot outside of Universal Studios. It was still under construction. The tickets to go in just to "VIEW" the place SOLD OUT!

Celebrated Ms. Chuah's 20th Birthday at Max Brenner VivoCity. The one in Aussie is still BETTER! (I miss my strand of purple hair!)

And of course, the main reason we went there was for Kathy's 22nd Birthday too!

Second visit during April 2010

One of my favourite desserts in S'pore! Chewy Junior!(That's Kathy's foot!)

Mr. Wang Wei Keat brought me to this place for dessert before our meal.
And we went to this super yummy toad/frog porridge in Geylang. Oh that's his hand scooping the porridge.

The next day I went for the CHC morning service, Special service with John Bevere at HOGC too but I didn't manage to take pictures there. And guess what, after 2 services I rushed to somewhere called "Lakeside" to be the last minute performing artist with Sharon Boon. We sang 2 songs in front of a bunch of Singaporeans, one written by Sharon herself and another by her Er Jie Shirley Boon. Great experience. You can find the videos on my facebook page *winks*

Camehoring in the MRT.Oh! Not forgetting Jia Yang that brought me to HOGC!

Third visit during May-June 2010

As seat fillers, we have the privilege to sit in front, in the midst of all the man and women of God from all over the world. Thus, a group pic with brother John!!!

Yup! That's how I look like almost 24/7. Every time I come out from every session, 1 sms will come in in one minutes, sometimes 2 smses in a minute and phone calls come raining in. Doing admin for 1000 people is not easy! (Hui Fen beside was trying accompany me being stressed. I'm not stressed though, just TIRED!)

Omg! Diana says this pic is like I'm forcing people to buy bak chang! hahaha busy girl having hundreds of passes to delegate!Grand finale. See our happy faces!

Fourth visit during Sept 2010

SOT graduation pic with Lionel Choong! The superstar Mr. Asia Conference 2010. The only new friend I made during AC cause I worked with him most of the time. Oh! He's nice to work with.

2010 SOT Grads of CHCKL (Chia Huey missing)

Whole kampung went to support the graduation of Sharon Rainie Boon!

Met them for dessert too!
My favourite durian dessert! Oh yeah! :D

Fifth visit during Oct 2010

Went to spend time with me bestie. But wrong timing! She got tests and midterms :( Oh! she slept with all the green stuff and let me sleep on her bed. How sweet!

Our random lunch at Ikea SG. (Love my kids meal - 5 Swedish beef balls and 2 pancakes!)

FINISHED!

All my friends tells me that Singapore is my second home. I have my own S'pore number and ezlink card. So, you judge for yourself! Haha. Nonetheless, it's a place that I love. Love the surroundings, church and my loved ones there!

Values that creates my life.

It has been 3 years and 4 months since I left my little beloved hometown - Taiping and search for my future and destiny here in KL.

Many said I've changed. Most of them thinks it's a good change. Well, at least those are the ones that told me so. Hee..

So what's the change here?

I guess the first change is having a whole new set of values in my life. Yes, I learnt them from church. Check this out! :)
It's posted on twitter by Shirley Boon. She shaped a big part of the values of my life.

I've started 2010 strong. Went to Taiwan, Singapore and even led a mission team myself. Then it was time for Asia Conference, where I dealt with stress that came in from 800 people and also learn to manage my emotions. I missed Asia Conference. I really do.

But to me, the hardest and greatest value that I've learnt this year is to embrace change. I'm not a person who likes changes. But it's the most constant thing in life. I've experienced a change of living environment, change of needs from the people around me and even change in my relationships.

In case you don't know, I'm a people person. Kinda an extreme one. So the toughest to me is of course the change in my relationships. I've experienced betray by someone close to my heart, cheating and lying about me just to protect ones self, a group of close friends getting attached or moving to the workplace one by one and have lesser time for me etc!

Many times I wished things will never change. Many times I wished we can go back to the good old times once again. That's a super selfish thought of mine. People need to grow. Whatever in life that does not grow is dead. There are seasons in our life.

So this is a season for me to learn. To learn how to love in a greater depth. To love even when people or things are unlovable. To do what is best for others in the expense of myself. (sounds very great and impossible?) Well, it's doable. Because love is not a feeling. Love is a choice! You can choose to love despite the circumstance.

You don't learn something until you know how to do it. I've learnt the real meaning of the word 祝福.

Jesus chose to love us when we're unlovable. I thank God that He's my model of love. If you wanna know what love is? Study His life.

Or....... you can try listening to this song by Jaeson Ma and Bruno Mars: